National Middle Child Day: Why Your 2nd Born Is So Special

Alessandra | Posted on August 22, 2024 |

All our children are special, of course! But there’s something so similar about all 2nd born children! So on National Middle Child Day, let’s discuss what it is about those 2nd kids.

National Middle Child Day is a special occasion to recognize and celebrate the unique qualities of those who hold the middle spot in the family lineup. Often overshadowed by the firstborn’s pioneering achievements and the youngest child’s charm, middle children bring a mix of traits that make them stand out in their own right. While they may be labeled as the “forgotten” child, middle children possess characteristics that are special, challenging, and downright hilarious. Let’s explore seven reasons why the second-born child deserves more recognition and why they’re truly one-of-a-kind!

National Middle Child Day: Special Traits those 2nd Born’s All Seem To Have

Before we dive in, I have had this conversation with many friends about our second child. I believe it ends up being called “Middle Child Syndrome” because these second children very often become middle children. But from what I’ve heard from other mama friends is this: 2nd children (middle or not) are all so similar in personalities! They tend to be headstrong, loud, attention seeking, hilarious, and fiercely independent. They definitely give us moms a run for our money and dare I say, some days make us want to pull our hair out! But they are also so loveable, fun, and silly. Let me know in the comments below if this sounds like your middle/second child as well!

1. The Ultimate Peacemakers

Middle children often find themselves playing the role of the mediator between their siblings. They develop excellent negotiation skills early on, striving to maintain peace and balance within the family. This ability to understand different perspectives and bridge gaps makes them natural diplomats, both at home and later in life.

2. Independent Thinkers

With the firstborn often being the guinea pig and the youngest receiving the most attention, the second-born child learns to navigate life more independently. They’re resourceful and self-reliant, figuring out how to solve problems on their own. This independence fosters creativity and a strong sense of self. My middle child was very independent long before her little sister came around though. She was dressing herself by 2 years old and putting on shoes. She basically potty trained herself and her independent play skills are amazing. And now at 7, she doesn’t take “no” for an answer, she just simply gets sh*t done herself.😂

3. Adaptable and Easygoing

Middle children tend to be more adaptable and easygoing, a result of constantly adjusting to the shifting dynamics in the family. They learn to go with the flow and make the best out of any situation. This adaptability can make them fun-loving and open to new experiences, bringing a sense of adventure to family life.

4. The Underdog with a Competitive Streak

As the second-born, middle children often feel the need to carve out their own niche, separate from their siblings. This can instill a competitive streak, as they strive to prove themselves in areas where their siblings might not excel. This underdog mentality drives them to work harder and achieve great things, often surprising everyone around them.

5. Masters of Humor

Living in the shadow of an older sibling and sharing attention with a younger one can lead middle children to develop a sharp sense of humor. They often use wit and humor as a tool to stand out and gain attention. Their comedic timing and ability to see the lighter side of life make them a joy to be around, adding laughter and levity to the family dynamic.

6. Strong Friendships Outside the Family

Middle children may seek validation and companionship outside the family, leading to deep and lasting friendships. They value these relationships and often build strong, supportive networks that last a lifetime. This ability to connect with others beyond the family unit can also make them more empathetic and understanding in their interactions.

7. Balanced and Fair-Minded

Having experienced life from both the older and younger sibling perspectives, middle children often develop a strong sense of fairness. They know what it’s like to be both the “big” and “little” sibling, which makes them more balanced in their judgment and interactions. This fairness makes them great leaders and trustworthy friends/siblings/companions!

Final Thoughts:

While middle children may not always receive the same level of attention as their siblings, they possess a unique blend of qualities that make them truly special. From their adaptability and independence to their humor and strong sense of fairness, middle children bring a distinct flavor to family life! On this National Middle Child Day, let’s take a moment to celebrate the often-overlooked middle child and acknowledge the wonderful ways they enrich our lives. Whether you’re a middle child yourself or you’re raising one, remember that their place in the family is anything but ordinary—it’s extraordinary!

Do you have a middle child and do they possess these similar traits? Or, do you believe in the old beliefs that middle children are often overlooked or “forgotten?” I’m not sure I truly believe that and I know my middle child gets A LOT of attention, and I also know she is loving, kind, hard-headed, and amazing! Tell me about your middle child in the comments!

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