Moms Deserve Summer Break Too—Here’s How to Take Yours

Alessandra | Posted on July 7, 2025 |

We’re well into summer break now, but if you’re finding yourself overwhelmed instead of relaxing, this is the blog for you! In this blog, we’ll talk about how moms deserve summer break too and how to find time for you during this time of year.

Summertime is about relaxing and enjoying the beautiful sunshine, right? But, somewhere along the way, summer break became a break, just for the kids. At least that how it seems. But what about stay at home moms? It often feels like the opposite of a break, but moms deserve summer break too! If you’ve found yourself planning endless activities, packing snacks, cleaning up the same messes 17 times a day, refereeing sibling fights, and wondering how it’s only 10:14 AM instead of sleeping in a bit and sipping iced coffee in the sunshine, then keep reading!

In this blog, I’m going to share tips that will actually help you enjoy your summer break too! Because stay at home moms also deserve rest, fun, and space to breathe. This summer, let’s rewrite the narrative. Here’s how to actually take your own version of a summer break, even if your kids are home and your to-do list never ends.

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Moms Deserve Summer Break Too: Here Are Tips To Help

Taking a “break” doesn’t mean leaving your kids behind on a yacht or finding a babysitter or ignoring them. It simply means carving out moments of relief, rest, and joy for yourself, too! Your kids aren’t the only ones who matter this season. You are allowed to matter too. Since moms deserve summer break too, I need you to read this blog with an open mind! Below are 5 tips to help you enjoy this season and make time for you, but you must first, let go on the mom guilt ok?! Let’s dive in and make sure to let me know what tip is your favorite in the comment section below.

1. Define What “Summer Break” Means to You

First off, define what you want to be part of your summer break. This is all your own preference so your version doesn’t need to look like anyone else’s!

Ask yourself:

What would make this summer feel lighter?
What do I want more of (rest, fun, quiet)?
What do I want less of (pressure, mess, activities)?

After you decide your definition of summer break, come up with some ideas to make it happen. Here are a few ideas below:

One day a week with no plans
A consistent solo coffee run
A screen time window for a guilt-free mom break
Saying “no” to things that drain you

Write it all down and claim it! If you want to make it happen, you CAN make it happen. Remember, this is your summer too.

2. Set Boundaries Without Apologizing

You’re not a camp counselor or a cruise director. You’re a whole human with needs and you don’t need to do everything for everyone. So set some boundaries and reap the benefits! The more you honor your own needs, the more patience, presence, and peace you’ll bring to your home.

Here’s a few examples of what boundaries could sound like:

“We’re doing quiet time every afternoon. Everyone needs a break—including me.”
“We’re not overbooking this summer. Two to three activities a week is enough.”
“I’m not cleaning the kitchen three times a day. If you’re hungry, grab a snack from the snack basket.”

Boundaries aren’t mean, they’re protective of your peace and your energy. And your ability to show up as the mom you want to be! So make sure to stay consistent with your boundaries and don’t be afraid of not doing things if it doesn’t serve you.

3. Create Your Own Summer Joy List

Your kids probably have their own summer bucket lists, but what’s on yours? Family bucket lists are great, but since moms deserve summer break too, it’s ok to make a small, doable bucket list for yourself. Below are a few ideas to help you get started:

Sit outside alone to drink your coffee before your kids wake up
Read a book during nap/quiet time
Get a pedicure or do one at home
Walk at sunset with headphones in
Make your favorite summer dinner just for you
Take a yoga class at home or in person

These are just a few simple ideas to get you started. Post your list on the fridge and make it a priority! If you’re doing small things for yourself each day, you’ll fill your cup and be able to take care of your family better. Which in turn, should help you feel less guilt about taking that time for you. What will you add to your summer bucket list? Let me know in the comments below!

4. Protect Your Time With Systems, Not Guilt

You can make space for yourself without feeling bad, I promise! Especially when you build in routines that give everyone what they need. Daily routines are rhythms are a great way to protect your sanity and time. Here are some ideas:

A daily rhythm (morning routine, quiet time, play time, etc.)
Rotating toy/activity stations so you’re not the entertainment
Prepping snacks in advance so you’re not a short-order cook

Routines are a great thing to add into your day, everyday. Need help building a rhythm that supports your family? Grab my free Morning Routine Checklist made just for moms like you by opting in below…

Or dive into my Mommy Burnout Guide—it’s full of structure tips, mindset resets, and simple strategies to help you actually enjoy this season again. Learn more by clicking the image below:

5. Say “Yes” to Help—and Say It Loudly

Being home with your kids all day, everyday, all summer long can be a lot. Even if you love summer and you enjoy this time home with your kids, it can get overwhelming quickly. So ask for help and accept help! Whether it’s asking your husband/partner for more evening help when he gets home from work, doing a childcare swap with a friend, hiring a teen to play with your kids for an hour, or simply not doing everything, it’s ok. Whatever works for you is good enough because you’re allowed to ask for help.

In Summation: Moms Deserve Summer Break, Too

Forget the summer survival kits and guides you see all over the internet. This summer doesn’t have to be all about survival! It can hold space for you, too. You can laugh, you can rest, nad you can take up space. And you can still spend time with your children connecting and having fun together! This isn’t meant to be or feel selfish, it’s almost sacred. So go ahead and block off 30 minutes for you and a hobby. Say no to that thing you don’t really want to do. Buy the iced coffee and play your favorite song a little too loud! This is your summer, too, mama, and you deserve every minute of it.

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